A Little VooDoo and A Big Miracle

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This could have been separated into two blogs, but as I think about, these really go together…so here goes.

I don’t know if you believe in spiritual things, both good and bad, but I do because both are in the Bible.  My first tale is about something that happened to me while I was in South Florida at the teacher’s conference.  My mother went with me just to get away and see some of Ft. Lauderdale.  While we were there we did get to ride on a water Taxi and take in a movie.  

When the conference was over I had time for lunch with the group, and then we had to check out.  Mother was always cleaning up after us whenever we stayed in a motel.  This day was no different.  She tidied up by spreading up the bedcovers and making the bags.  When she spread up the bed, she inadvertently covered over my “arms” as I called them.  I had to wear braces at night to bed because I had carpal tunnel syndrome.  It was so bad that sometimes I would wake up mother to beat on my arms so they would wake up.  They would go to “sleep” and were so heavy.  I couldn’t even hit them to stimulate them that is why Mother would have to slap them until some feeling would return.

That night at home I realized what had happened…no arms.  Mother called the next day and was told that they did find the braces and would send them to us.  After five days they had not arrived so Mother called again.  This time she talked to the manager who went to housekeeping and found the braces still there.  Mother could hear him yelling at the women who did not send them out.  The manager promised to put them in the mail that very afternoon.  He did.

Two days later I opened the box and wore them to bed that night.  I had the most vivid and terrifying dream that night!  I dreamed I was dancing around a fit pit with other women.  We all had on see-through blue gowns and were drugged.  We could hear chanting and the killing of chickens.  We were being prepared to have a sexual encounter with the Devil himself!  I was crying, but I kept thinking that I was dreaming.  I began to sing, “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, there’s just something about that name.”  I sang all two verses and started over again.  After singing this chant for about 10 minutes, I woke up in a cold sweat!   I was terrified.  I got up, took off the braces, and turned on all the lights in my room.  I prayed to God that I wouldn’t have that dream again, and I received the message that I was to pray the blood of Jesus on the braces.  I did that, but was still afraid to put them back on. I sat up all night.  The next day I washed them in the washing machine, but even after that, I went out and bought new ones.

What you don’t know is the fact that the women who were cleaning our motel room were from Haiti.  They didn’t even speak English. I knew that they had put a spell on those braces because Mother got them into trouble with the manager.  Evil is alive and well in Haiti.  Christians aren’t exempt from evil, but let me tell you about how to get rid of that evil.  Jesus is the answer.  Now every time I have a bad dream, I wake myself up by singing that song, “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, there’s just something about that name.  Master, Savior, Jesus, like the fragrance after the rain.  Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, let all heaven and earth proclaim.  Kings and kingdoms will all pass away, but there’s something about that name.”

And now for the miracle…

My carpal tunnel got so bad that I had to have tests run and shots.  I also scheduled to have the surgery on my wrists that would cut the problem, releasing the pain.  I could not even brush my teeth in the morning.  I couldn’t make a fist in order to hold the toothbrush!  When I got to school, I would unlock my filing cabinets,  but then wait until a student would come in to help me get my books out of the cabinet.  I could not lift those text books.  They were heavy!  Because I taught so many classes, there were a lot of books to put on my desk  They also got out my answer keys for my subjects that were in heavy binders.

At the end of the day, one of my students would put everything away for me and straighten up my classroom.  i couldn’t do either.

My surgery was scheduled.  My students were happy that I was having it done.  The Monday before my surgery, I came into the classroom, unlocked the cabinets, and proceeded to take out the books and put them on my desk.  I stopped after the fifth heavy book, and said aloud, “My gosh!  My hands don’t hurt!”  When my students came in, they couldn’t believe that I had taken out all the books.  I didn’t want to shout it out, yet, but I knew that I had just experienced a miracle.  I had asked for a healing and had tons of people praying for me.  My husband prayed over my hands every night!  He got on the Internet and had people all over Florida praying for me.

The next day, I did the same: came into class, unlocked the cabinets, and took out all those books and binders.  By Wednesday, I told my class about the prayer and the miracle.  They were shocked, but they believed because they had seen it with their own eyes!  I called my doctor and told her that I had had a miracle and I didn’t need the surgery.  She calmly said, “Well, that’s wonderful.  If it ever comes back, give me a call, and we’ll reschedule the surgery.”  

That, dear reader, was at least eight years ago.  I am typing away!  No Pain!  A real live miracle…Praise God!

God Bless.

Spring Break, Anyone?

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Spring Break, Anyone?

This photo should make your hungry for the surf and sand. There’s even a surf board in the pic! The weather is nice in Florida, but I think it’s supposed to rain all week. It is raining right now…one of those slow rains that smell so good with no lightening or thunder. I really love living in Florida. I don’t miss the cold nor the snow. It is pretty, but if you have to drive in it, it doesn’t seem so pretty. Many of the kids up North are missing spring break because they have to make up the days they missed for snow this year…bummer! Anyway, when you get a chance, come on down!

ALASKA, THE FINAL FRONTIER!

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ALASKA, THE FINAL FRONTIER!

Mother and I went on an Alaskan adventure together. First we did the land tour which was fantastic! We felt like pioneers exploring an untouched land. The last leg of our tour was a cruise. Here we are on deck and freezing! Someone on the cruise took our picture together. It was a great trip! I had a hard time keeping up with Mother! We rode planes, trains, boats, ships, and buses on that trip…it was exhausting yet exhilarating! We saw grizzly bears, mountain sheep, and even a pod of killer whales on our trip. I am so glad I have these memories with Mother. I miss her so much.

WE THREE..

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WE THREE..

Picture of me, my sister Violet and my sister Lovada. We all have “old timey” names…I am Dora, named after my mother’s mother, Violet is named after my father’s mother, and Lovada is named after my mother’s aunt, who raised her because my mom’s mother died when she (mother) was only four years old. Left, oldest, to right, youngest. Aren’t we cute?

Bottom of Grand Canyon

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Bottom of Grand Canyon

This is a climbing goat against the rocks of the Grand Canyon. We were in a jeep on Indian territory when we took this shot. We had to get permission from the tribe before we could travel through the canyon down to the Colorado River. Most people don’t see the goats because they blend in so well.

Unconditional Love

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My blog today is going to tell the story of a friend who died today.  Her story isn’t much different from anyone else’s in that she lived until she was 82 and died of the after-effects of chemotherapy treatment for cancer.

The real difference in her story is how she and her husband appeared to others.  I first met them when we moved into the Isles a year ago.  They had just moved in, also. We ate together and laughed together.  She was a fiesty lady, meaning she had a lot to say and a lot to do.  She and her husband were always running to doctor appointments or to the hospital.  She had just gone through a bout of chemotherapy and was over the cancer, but she has side effects that dealt a blow to her lungs and her heart.

The BIG thing about this couple was the loving way in which her husband took care of her.  She was in a wheelchair and was very thin, almost emaciated. She had no hair left from the treatments, but she always wore a cute hat to the dining room.  Her husband pushed her wheelchair for her and carried an air tank on his walker for her.  If she was chilled, he would get up and get her a sweater out of a carryall bag.  He never complained, nor did he ever show any anger or frustration for all the things he and she had to go through.  This is the picture of true love.  Everyone can love a good-looking person with no issues, but it takes a certain strength to endure illness and the ravages of that illness with a loved one who used to be that good-looking person.  

Her disposition was usually cheerful, but sometimes her body made her look “on the edge.”  She kept up a good front for everyone even though she had pain and other discomforts.  It was a lot of work to get her ready to go see the doctor, but her husband didn’t mind.  He was always there by her side no matter what.

Monday, she couldn’t breathe, so she asked him to take her to the hospital.  Tuesday, she could barely speak but wanted last rites from a priest.  Wednesday, she and her husband spoke to each other for two hours by giving hand signals before she died.  Her body had had enough and her spirit was willing to let go.  We all want to live as long as possible, but we all seem to know when that last breath is nearby.  

I’ll miss her smile and the couple as an example of how to get through life even in the worst of circumstances.  At the funeral her husband said he’d need a few days to feel better…he had collapsed in the hospital and injured himself when she died.  But his spirit is still hanging on.  He will rejoin our family when he feels better.  He will go on living with the spirit of happiness that they shared as a couple.  She will be by his side in spirit.

God Bless.

Mother’s Last Vacation

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Mother's Last Vacation

This is picture of my cute Mother at a Greek restaurant in Hilton Head, SC. Mother went with us on this vacation and really enjoyed about three days until the Alzheimer’s acted up. She didn’t know why we had taken her to South Carolina. Mother loved to travel and she and I have had many vacations together. This was her last in October, 2012. She died that December. She was my best friend, and I will always miss having her near.

Everyone has a story to tell!

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We live with some amazing people here at the Isles.  People from all over the United States come to live in Florida and when needed, they move into Independent and Assisted Living residences.  The Isles at Vero Beach has both types of residents.  What is appealing to me are the different stories each person has to tell.  In fact, I am beginning a class on how to tell your story on Saturday.  I have a story to tell and so does everyone, even you.  The problem arises because people think they need to know how to write like a novelist.  Fact is, one can tell his/her story in very simple stories.  Some of the amazing ones I am going to share with you today.

A lady named Ida told me one of her stories just recently.  At dinner, she sat with me and we talked about her pet Tiki.  It seems her husband and children stopped by a jungle land in Florida while they were visiting years ago.  She stayed in the car while they went inside.  When her husband came back with the kids, he was carrying something in his hand; it was tiny and cute and she asked, “What is that?”

“Why it is a baby monkey! I bought him for our son.”

She was very quiet on their way home while her son cuddled with his new pet.  Her husband built the little monkey a beautiful cage to live in and the family accepted it as a new family member.  My friend had to go to a jungle store up North to find out how to raise and feed a monkey.  She asked how long does a monkey live and no one seemed to know the answer to that one.  “It depends on how you take care of the pet.”

Well, Tiki had a long life…21 years!  Tiki was just like a treasured family pet.  She learned its mannerisms and its voices.  Tiki grew very close to her husband and her son.  They played with the little guy all the time. One day Tiki caught the attention of her husband and wanted out of the cage.  He took Tiki out and held him up close to him.  Tiki curled into his body and was very content.  It was Tiki’s time to die, and he wanted to be near his beloved “Daddy.”  It was the only time his wife had ever seen him shed a tear.

There are many other stories in our little community.  I have met a couple who joined the Peace Corp and spent several years in Madagascar.  Another couple lived much of their lives in  Colonial Williamsburg, being part of the historical landscape.  They wore period costumes, taught period dancing, and even did carpentry work for the village.  Wow!  Interesting stories are coming at me all the time.  That is why I am holding the class; these people need to share their amazing lives with others!  Stay tuned for more!

God Bless.

View through Window

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View through Window

This is a photo taken on the porch at the Columbia Restaurant in Celebration, FL. The restaurant serves the best beans and rice and Cuban sandwiches. Their specialty is the 1905 salad that features Spanish olives and the best dressing ever. The location is outside Disney World in the cute village of Celebration…a must go- to- see if you are in the area. There are many unique shops and great restaurants there, as well as a huge lake with rocking chairs to sit in on your breaks from shopping!! Great Place!!