That should get your attention! I did have a student who thought he was a vampire. He would prowl at night and drink the blood of animals he would kill. He would take his girlfriend with him. I learned all of this from teaching in a non-traditional program. I also had some other freaky kids who were Satan worshipers. If you want to read more, first you have to read my blog about my non-traditional classroom. Then I will post more. Enjoy!
Non-traditional Classroom
StandardThere is a photo of my last classroom posted on this blog. It had a green chalk board, turquoise linoleum, tablecloths on the desks, and much more. Along the chalk board at the top are photos of my students and some of their children. Also on the walls are finished projects/posters from the students. A combination of smells, sights, colors, and tastes made this room special. It also had six computers, three video players, several tape players, and a CD player. Hanging above my desk was a large TV that was used for special events that were broadcast. I would have liked round tables and sofas in the room, but they weren’t available. This is the home of non-traditional teaching/learning.
As a classroom teacher for over 38 years, I want to share some of the highlights of my experiences with my readers. I loved teaching and would not have changed a thing, but that is because I never was a stand-up lecturer. I did plenty of teaching, but it wasn’t in front of a blackboard (green, in my class).
My students were from different high schools. They came to me because they had had a difficult time in traditional school.s. They had learning problems or behavior problems. Some were pregnant and couldn’t stay in regular classes. Some came from out of state and had to make up credits in order to get a high school diploma. Some were there because the courts were giving them one last chance at making a change for the better. I taught drug-dealers, prostitutes, doctors’ children, other teachers’ children, and once in awhile a Satan worshiper or a vampire. Yes, one student thought he was a real vampire.
I am just your average teacher. I made average grades in high school and college. But what I had that made the difference was several learning disabilities and Christian love toward my students. I didn’t find out about my disabilities until I had taught most of my life. I was in a class for teachers about how to teach according to the learning style of the student. I took a simple test and found out that I had a HEARING disability and a READING disability. How could i go through college and graduate school with these two glaring disabilities? That was my question to the professor who taught the class. She asked me about my teaching style and my classes. Her answer was simple. “You found a way to learn by teaching yourself and by-passing the disabilities.”
She was right. I knew all along that I struggled much more than my peers with learning, with reading, and with listening to lectures. My saving grace was the ability to overcome. I learned to read with a pen. I took copious notes. I circled key words: I highlighted sentences. I reread everything I had to read. No one knew of my disabilities. How I got through grade school is a mystery to me.
This is where we begin… teacher with disabilities teaching students with disabilities. Some combination! I knew what I did was not the usual but it worked. I taught students who had troubles and helped them overcome the pitfalls that I had experienced. If they couldn’t understand what they read to themselves, I would have them read aloud and then listen to it. I would show them how to read a paragraph at a time, ask themselves a few questions, and then answer those questions before going forward. This was doable because there was no time limit on how long they took to learn. Amazing concept! In regular classes, we teach to the middle range of students: the good ones get bored and the slow ones are left behind. Next week we move on to another subject. Doesn’t seem fair, does it? Well, it isn’t.
In non-traditional classes, students have the time they need to learn. This also helps those who are very capable. They can go on ahead and finish faster. The one principle that I insisted upon was completion of tasks and testing out of the subject. Students could not by-pass the work; they couldn’t take a “F” and go to another level. Of course, this is hard to track, so I had to have very detailed lesson plans for each subject, post tests for each level, and materials that met all the different styles of learning: audio, visual, reading, and tactile. When they came to class I would test them for their learning style, explain the methods used in the classroom, give them the rules of behavior and progression, and have them color in a sheet that gave me lots of information about their likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc.
My classroom was non-traditional in other ways: coffee in the morning, cereal available, water allowed in bottles at all times, music playing softly in the background, and a teacher that was available when needed. In one classroom I might have 30 students, but they were taking different courses. I taught English 9, 10, 11, and 12; also creative writing, mythology, the American short story, drawing I and II, and sometimes “journalism.” We produced a literary magazine each year with students contributing writings, paintings, poetry, and drawings. These subjects each had a syllabus, at least 8 tests, a final, and a project.
Each year I would have at least 300 students. Many would complete and graduate. Some left and came back later to finish. Some gave up, but not many. Most would go on to college. I have taught future doctors, lawyers, English teachers, artists, and mothers and fathers. I loved every minute of it. Most of my years of teaching were focused on non-traditional concepts. I truly believe we could change the world if we would change our educational system.
In future blogs, I will talk about some of my most bizarre experiences as well as some of the most fulfilling.
God Bless.
My Classroom
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This is a photo of my classroom at Daytona State College. My attempt at de-traumatizing the room was successful most of the time. In the following blog, I’ll tell you more about this special room and the young adults with whom I worked. Enjoy1
God’s Rocks
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Jesus is the Rock upon which the church is built, and this church is built upon the red rocks of Sedona, AZ that God built. You can’t quite see how amazing this is without a comparison. The rocks are HUGE. The Church is built into the rocks on the other side.
I Want to Cure Mental Illness
StandardPeople with mental illnesses have always drawn near to me. Why? I don’t really know, but I suspect that my personality and ability to communicate with just about anyone must contribute some aura all its own, thus drawing out those with mental problems. Is that a sentence or what?
My first encounter with mental illness arrived as a young man to my singles’ group. He was a handsome guy, but I soon felt something was not quite right. He was the kind of guy who needed mothering. But that wasn’t it. He needed someone to “pet” and I was it. The singles group sat together in church, so he would sit next to me and pet my hair all during service. I know what people were saying, but believe me, they knew I was not going to put up with that very long. I am NOT making fun of this young man; I am merely talking about his mental illness. After asking him to not play with my hair, we had a long talk. He said he was bi-polar, and had gotten sick while in the Marines. Mental illness hits lots of young men in stressful situations. He had not been diagnosed before his enlistment. He continued to come to our meetings, but finally decided to go back to college and get a degree. He wanted to do something useful even though he had problems.
Over the eleven years of ministry with singles, I met and am still friends with several bi-polar individuals. As long as they stay on their medication they are normal to some extent. However, most feel they are better and quit taking their meds. This cycle continues through out their lives, usually ruining their relationships, marriages, and family lives. Mental illness is not seen as a medical issue but as a legal issue. In fact, I was married to someone who was mentally ill.
Mental illness comes in many forms. One of my ex’s had several problems which no one was willing to divulge to me…even the psychiatrist told me that their sessions were private and wouldn’t even tell me what was wrong. I would be sitting with him at dinner and he would be talking to someone else at the table…even when no one was there. He changed his personality from day to day, and I never knew what would happen next. He bought a junk yard and put a third mortgage on our home…imagine that…without my permission. He was super intelligent at times and at other times he didn’t know how to take a bus across town. It is very difficult to help someone you love if no one tells you what is going on. At one point, he attempted to choke me to death. That was enough for me. He is still ill and alone, now. He needs a miracle.
One of my best friends is mentally ill. Her family has deserted her, and has left her to take care of herself. She can do that well enough when she is okay; when she isn’t, then one of her friends has to stand in for family. I pray a lot that she will be healed, and I believe that some of her illness has retreated. She is coping better with life. She hasn’t had a very happy life because of her illness. I wish she would meet someone like herself and they could take care of each other.
One of my single friends who was also bi-polar met a guy on line and married him. He knew she had problems, but wanted a child. She moved to New York, had his child, and is still there, I hope. She was a fine Christian, but when she met him she became a Muslim. I know her illness caused this reversal in her spiritual journey. I know God will watch over her and the rest of these mentally ill friends. HE has to because no one else is.
My desire and my husband’s is to find a cure for mental illness through the healing ministry of Jesus Christ. These people need advocacy. They can be cuffed and dragged off to jail at any time. They fear the embarrassment of it all. They end up in hospitals that don’t look any further when they hear “mental illness.” No matter what is wrong with them physically, they are put in the psych ward. I have seen how they treat them and it is not a pretty picture. One of my friends was taken from her home in a soiled house dress and no underwear. She was even barefoot. Sometimes the cops just leave the house open, and she doesn’t even get a change to get her ID or wallet.
I know God loves these sometimes unlovable people. I love them. Since I have no family relationship with them, I am not allowed to talk to their doctors or anyone about them. When they get to a hospital, the doctor there does the “treating” and doesn’t even call their own doctors to see what meds they have taken or which ones worked and which ones didn’t. I feel so sorry for their unfair treatment and so should all of us.
If you know someone who is fighting mental illness, be a friend. Get them the help they need. Drive them to the hospital when they start acting out of the normal. It is better than the cops showing up with cuffs. Be an advocate for them. Let people know about your friend. Help your friends find a place to socialize and have fun. Some day, these precious overlooked people will be cured. I am hoping for great miracles for the mentally ill before Christ returns. He said in the Word that we will do much more than He did while here on earth. Pray for miracles. Pray for the mentally ill.
God bless.
My Traveling Buddies
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This was taken on anniversary of my teaching, 30 years, beginning in Long Beach, MS. Photo is me, my daughter RonnAnn, and Mother.
Mosquito Bite!
StandardPeople wonder why I am so afraid of mosquitoes. Well, if they had experienced what I did when I was 35 years old, they would worry about mosquitoes, too.
It all started while I was panning for gold at one of the remaining gold mines in North Caroline. At the time, I lived in Charlotte, and had two little girls to entertain. We had just come back from vacation in Florida and the girls were wanting to go out for the day, so we took them to the gold mine.
While I was panning, I got the weirdest headache. It hurt so badly that I couldn’t see. I had to go home and lie down. No one was very happy with that decision, but I was really sick and they knew it. That was on a Sunday. That night my head continued to hurt like crazy, so I took a strong pain pill and went to bed. I could actually feel my brain inside my skull.
The next day I called my doctor and went to see him. My head felt really weird. I thought I had had a stroke. The doctor talked to me for a few minutes and told me I had a virus that was caused by a mosquito bite that probably bit me in Florida. He said there was no medicine that would help me. I needed bed rest . He warned me that strange things might happen to me and to call him if I needed to. The next day I had a very painful neck. I couldn’t hold my head in any position to get it out of pain. I called the doctor. “Use warm cloths,” he said.
The next day I woke up and had terrible cramps in my legs. I could not walk. I had a fever, too. My husband had to walk me to the bathroom with my feet on top of his feet. He even had to hold me until I went to the bathroom. That night I had hallucinations.
The day after that I woke up and could not feel my chest. It didn’t feel like it was asleep…it felt like it wasn’t there. I called the doctor. He said, “Your brain is swelling and is making you have that sensation.” Every day for a week or two I called the doctor with a new symptom. I was really scared. I thought I was going to die. I couldn’t do anything but sleep. I would sleep for hours on end…up to 10 hours at a time. Even today, when I get sick, I have to sleep a lot. I think my brain must swell a little when I get a fever.
I was sick for about a month, but it took me 3 months to recuperate. My brain had swollen because I had encephalitis. The doctor didn’t tell me at the time, but he feared I would have some sort of brain damage. After I got better, he told me. I did have a little brain damage, sort of like having dyslexia; some of my writing would come out all jumbled and my numbers would reverse, too. I just had to try harder and check myself and my writing to make sure it was okay.
Once in awhile I would write an assignment on the board, and the kids would laugh. I’d look at it and laugh too. Nothing would make sense. This only happened once in a while and didn’t affect my teaching.
All in all, that has been my longest and worst illness in my life. I had asthma as a child and pneumonia, but that virus from the mosquito really put me flat out for several months. So…friends…this is why I am afraid of that ity bitty bug…the mosquito.
Strawberries, Anyone?
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Took this amazing photo in Napa Valley, CA. Makes my mouth water for strawberry shortcake.
Air Force One
StandardIt’s funny how at 70 one can remember the highlights of one’s life as if they happened yesterday. Very few things in my life are special to me, but boarding Air Force One back during the Nixon administration is one of those special event.
For a short time I was the editor of the Andrews Air Force Base newspaper, The Gateway. While publishing that paper, I received permission to do a piece about the air craft Air Force One, and what impact a new President has upon it. Did you know that each new President can decorate the inside of his plane any way he/she wants?
Well, Nixon redid the entire interior of Air Force One. At the time I wrote the piece I also took pictures of it, inside and out. I also knew how much it costs the taxpayers to have this work done. I don’t remember that particular number, but it was a lot.
While on board, the crew let me SIT on the President’s bed!! How many people can say that??? The bed spread or coverlet on the bed at the time was a dark blue with the Presidential Seal of the United States in the middle of it.
There is a section for the press corp on the plane, also. There are all kinds of instruments that are visible outside the cockpit. I don’t know what they were, but they were impressive.
I really enjoyed my work as editor of the Gateway. At the time, I was a widow of an Air Force S Sgt. who had been stationed at Andrews. I also volunteered in the hospital there to make phone calls for the returning Viet Nam vets. Andrews AFB will always have a part of my heart.
God Bless.
Intervention
StandardSeveral years ago I had an intervention—a heavenly intervention.
I had gone to Publix to shop after church one night; then stopped at a friend’s house for a few minutes. While I was there, I stood outside her home with the doors of my car open. it was a very balmy night. I got back into my car to leave and a huge Palmetto bug glared at me from the passenger seat. At this point I screamed, got out of the car, and ran into her house yelling! She handed me some bug spray and we both went back out to see if I could chase it away.
I tried my best, but the spray just sent it into hiding. Now what was I to do. I had to go home because the car was filled with groceries.
My friend let me keep the bug spray, so on the way home, with the inside lights on, I watched for the BIG BUG to come out again! IT DID!!!
I slammed on the breaks, jumped out, grabbed the bug spray, and opened up the other door so I could chase it out of the car. I sprayed and it took off into the night…this time OUT the door. I was so relieved. I quickly shut the other door and jumped back in the car. I sat there a moment to calm myself.
Coming toward me was a black SUV with its lights blinking and its horn blowing. I thought it might be a student from the college or someone from church who needed me for some reason. I sat there until the car made a U-turn and pulled in behind me.
I watched through the rear view mirror for someone to get out of the SUV, but no one did. The lights never came on because no door was opened…or so I thought. The next thing I knew someone was knocking on the passenger door window. It was a young black man, but no one I knew. My window was cracked a little, so I asked him what he wanted. He said, “How do I get to Orange Avenue?”
“That’s easy,” I said. “Just go straight for another two blocks. Orange Avenue is at the next light.”
Just then I heard someone else trying to get into my back door on my side of the car. I looked around and there was another black guy at the back window. “Open the door,” he yelled.
“It is only two blocks. You can walk,” I said calmly.
He didn’t like my answer, so he stuck a large barreled hand gun up to my window pointed to my head. I didn’t have much time to ponder the situation. A voice said, “Your car is in drive. Step on the gas!”
I tromped on the gas pedal, ducked my head, and took off. I left them in the dust! I called 911 and headed toward the police station. I went in and filled out the forms, but I shook all the way there and back to my house.
That voice was an intervention from the Holy Spirit. I am sure of it. There was no one else around who could have said that to me. Believe it or not, I would not be here if that voice had not told me what to do.
Do you listen for God’s voice? You must be open to his calling. I’m glad he chose to talk to me that night, and I am glad I listened.
God Bless.